10 Physical Signs He’s Cheating And Some Weird Ones, Too!
You and your partner have been seeing each other for several months now, maybe even a year, and it’s been great. Still, you’re starting to notice a few changes in his behavior. You’re wondering if either you’re paranoid or is he cheating? The physical signs he’s cheating on you are evident, but only if you know what to look for.
On one hand, you want to know the signs of cheating, but on the other, you don’t want to accuse him of cheating and he’s not. On top of that, you don’t want to believe it yourself. Still, there’s something off about him, but you just can’t put your fingers on it. What could it be? Chances are if he’s cheated before, he’ll do it again. If he is unfaithful, do you ghost on him or do you forgive and stay?
Physical Signs He’s Sleeping with Someone Else
Getting evidence could prove difficult. One way to know is to look at the telltale signs he’s cheating. They are similar to the signs she’s thinking about cheating. Here are a few clues to look for.
10New Scents or Physical Evidence
How to figure out if he’s cheating? Of course, you can look for the obvious signs – a strange perfume, lipstick on his body or clothes that’s not yours, scratches or other unexplained marks on his body.
9Hints from Friends or Family
Often, your man’s co-workers will give him up or throw him under the bus if he’s mistreating a ‘good girl.’ The same thing goes for his friends or family. Listen for those little hints or sly remarks. They could be telling you something you need to know.
8Signs He’s Cheating with a Co-Worker
If he’s working late all of a sudden or accepting assignments which take him out of town, he could be cheating with a co-worker or these could be signs he’s cheating on you at work. Compare that with some of the other signs like spending more money than usual, but there’s nothing to show for it. Or better yet, no extra money in the paycheck for the extra hours. Okay…
7Attached to His Phone
The signs he’s cheating online are easy to spot. Likely, he’s spending more time on the phone lately or his laptop. Not only that, but he’s put a lock code on his phone or acts funny when you come into the room while he’s on it. Um, yeah, these are physical signs he’s cheating.
6Subtle Body Language
Some signs are not obvious. In fact, the subtle signs he’s cheating are so ordinary, you may miss them. Is he answering a question with a question? Does he touch his face or bite his lip, scratch his nose or even eyes? Sounds silly, but it’s not. Research proves liars touch their faces often and let’s face it, this man can’t even look you in the eyes anymore.
Knowing the physical signs he is sleeping with someone else will only help you discover the truth. However, there’s one thing we have as women and that is our instinct or intuition. When your gut is telling you there’s something off, you can pretty much say, he’s having an affair, honey.
4No Laughing Matter
Sometimes, we laugh when we want to cry, but if he laughs after you ask if he’s cheating, he’s guilty. Some men will turn it around and accuse you of being unfaithful. Don’t let him make you feel foolish, though. You’re on the right track and he knows it.
3Turn it Around
His defense will be that you’re jealous and even a tad bit on the crazy side for even thinking such a thing. He wants to fill your head with self-doubt, but again, don’t let him turn it around on you. Trust what your gut is telling you and even take the signs he’s cheating quiz if that will make you feel better.
Say what? Did he get a new look? This man is trying to impress someone and it’s not you, dear heart. You’ve been trying to get him to trim his hair and get some new clothes for the last five years and nothing, so what’s really going on? It’s possible this is another one of the many physical signs he’s cheating.
1Buys You Presents
No, he didn’t buy you flowers on a Tuesday, did he? And the necklace you wanted? Come on, now! What has put this man in a good mood? Is this a sign of a happily married man or a man who has a side chick?
Weird Signs He’s Cheating
Some people think when a man pulls on his mustache or beard, it may be a dead giveaway. At the same time, I think it’s a little weird if he’s twirling his hair. Men don’t twirl typically so what’s going on in his mind?
Body language speaks louder than words. You know when we cross our arms, we’re feeling some type of way. It’s nonverbal physical signs he’s cheating, signs he’s angry or got something to hide. In addition, watch his feet and notice where they point. If they point towards the exit, he would like to leave. Simple enough, right?
Not only that, but relationship experts feel as though if a man is constantly looking at his feet, he could be unhappy. The reality is this: we do things we don’t want to do because we don’t want to hurt the other person. If this is the case, he may want to quit the relationship. Time to communicate openly and honestly.
Ruth Houston, the author of “Is He Cheating on You? 829 Telltale Signs,” agrees that keeping a record of his behavior will help you come up with the ammo you need to break it off with this guy.
While there are all kinds of physical signs he’s cheating, there are at least 32 emotional signs that he’s cheating you. What I know is, cheaters lie, but “the more diligently you look, the more telltale signs you’re likely to find.”
Houston knows when emotions are involved, it’s easy to believe what we want to believe to avoid the painful truth. Have the undeniable proof when you accuse your man of cheating on you.