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Who’s had a perfect relationship? Probably no one, not even those who are celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary. Although relationships are tough, nobody wants to live all their lives being single. But if you’re pursuing a guarded woman, dating can be a little different than before.

It’s especially offbeat when you’re generally the easy-going person that loves everyone. Dating this person is not as easy as it may appear. What you should know about loving the girl with the guarded heart is that she has a lot of love left inside her. She’s the center of attention for a reason, you know.

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Jamaican woman sitting and laughing means she’s happy. Don’t mess it up.

She’s sexy, attractive, funny, and easy to talk to. It makes sense that you’re drawn to her. However, when a man approaches her, she seems to withdraw. To you, it may be a bunch of mixed signals or even seem crazy, but to her, it’s pretty normal behavior.

She has entrusted her heart to others only to have it tossed in the fire, ran over by a monster truck, and buried at sea. Yeah, you’re going to need some tools to get to her heart and you won’t be able to uncover it overnight.

So, pack your lunch, your dinner, snacks, and your water cause it’s going to be a long haul pursuing a guarded woman. But the treasure, baby, is totally worth it. With that said, let’s find out more about your girl with the heart of walls. 

Dating a Guarded Woman

When you see this woman, you may think a lot of things about her. You might wonder if she really likes you or even if you like her for that matter. There’s a lot of confusion [signs she is guarded] but it’s going to be much easier once you understand the lady with a heart guard.

  • She smiles because it’s easier than wearing a frown. This lady knows the importance of a positive attitude. The guarded girl will address everyone in the room like she owns the building. It’s probably one of the qualities you find attractive.
  • Some people may find their social confidence intimidating. Still, you will need to make the first move when pursuing a guarded woman. She won’t initiate conversations and for heaven’s sake, don’t bring up sex. You want to engage in light communication and make her laugh.
  • The guarded woman doesn’t give away trust, it must be earned. You can talk until the cows come home, but it won’t mean a thing without action. She’ll smile and go along with what you’re saying, but in the back of her mind, she’s thinking “yeah, okay… whatever.”
  • The woman with a guarded heart only seems like she has it all together, but just so you know, she’s nervous, too. She won’t tell you this because she will seem vulnerable. 

In fact, there’s a lot she’s not going to tell you about herself or her past in the beginning. She will open up when you establish a level of trust. But at the end of the day, she wants love. She wants to give love as well as receive it.

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How to Love a Guarded Woman

The guarded woman wants you to go hard and break down her heart guard. But, sadly, most men give up pursuing a guarded woman and she suffers yet another disappointment. Man has failed her again. In her eyes, you’re just another weak individual who didn’t deserve her.

She’s going to put you to the test just to see what kind of man you really are. If she does this, hang in there! These are the signs a guarded girl likes you.

But you’re going to have to let her call you. The new relationship will be on her terms. It’s going to be slow dating ahead of you if you should decide to go forward with the chase. Just remember, it’s hard for her to let go of the past because the past is certainly her present.

There comes a point when she can’t let her guard down… she can’t let go not until she’s sure of your honorable intentions.  She will not want to repeat the heartbreak again. Can you blame her? 

As you are getting to know the guarded woman, ask about her past relationships. Find out what went wrong and protect her from the monsters in her closet.

Again, pursuing a guarded woman is not going to be like dating a submissive female. She’s not the “yes” person you have been dating in the past. She will challenge youShe will also withdraw if you push her or try to rush her into a relationship or anything she’s not ready to do yet, including kissing.

Kissing is highly intimate and until she’s ready, even a kiss could be asking too much. Remember, you represent pain and misery. Be patient. You can’t change the past, but you can certainly change her future. Good luck with dating a guarded woman.

Be the king she’s been waiting for and she will treat you like one.

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