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The independent woman can afford her own. What can you bring to the table?

The independent woman isn’t the kind of woman you’re used to. Sure, she’s intelligent and knows how to take care of herself, but she’s a lot of fun to be around plus, she’s an exceptional partner to have as a friend or lover.

Being an independent woman, she will help you succeed in life. She will, in fact, plant seeds you absolutely need to enrich your life. Having said this, you know she is invaluable. Do you know any strong, women of color?

This woman, however, is not the needy kind of girl. She is strong, caring and nurturing. She will have high levels of self-esteem and will tell you that she doesn’t need you without hesitation.

Independent single women will not crowd you or expect you to forego your plans for the evening to be with her.

Nope, she’s not the cling-on. She has things to do or can use the time to relax with a good book while sitting in the sauna or Jacuzzi. You know, she’s a multi-tasker by nature.

The independent woman learned to be her own best friend years ago. Her friends are few but she’s okay with that. The smaller the circle, the better for her. In fact, she enjoys traveling but she travels alone mainly.

Independent women in relationships

If you are interested in an independent woman of color, you should be as self-directed as she is. The self-reliant woman is not easy to get close to, so the more you know about these beautiful women before you approach her, the better for you.

So, keep reading to get tips for dating the independent woman.

7. Show and tell

Keep your word and you’ll win the independent woman’s respect, which in her case, is a close second to love. If you say you’ll do something, do it. If something happens that changes events or circumstances, let her know immediately.

Independent women are no strangers to canceled plans however, she rightfully becomes irritated with a no-call, no-show.

6. When you’re wrong…

You made a mistake, it’s no biggie but now you must apologize for it. A simple apology with an offer to make it up to her, a valid reason why you should be forgiven will suffice.  Women love it when a man honestly owns up to his mistakes without having to force it out of them.

5. Do you…

Don’t stop meeting the fellas for happy hour or for drinks during the big game or whatever it is when you guys get together. She understands more than anyone what a night out with friends can do for the soul but more importantly, time with your parents or children.

4. Say something that matters

Your opinion matters. Talk to her and even challenge her knowledge from time to time, but know your stuff when you challenge her, because if she’s on her game, she will put the spotlight back on you and we don’t want you standing there with your jaw a mile long, now do we?

Prompt her to think outside the box and you will be rewarded.

3. No couch potatoes for the independent woman

There are two things about independent women:  They “don’t get tired” and they can’t stand a lazy man or woman, child or adult.  Independent women feel if they can do it, so can anyone else, so “get up and get out… do something!”

2. Be decisive

Decision making will likely be a joint venture, but you must be firm in what you want as well. You can’t change your mind in mid-sentence and expect an independent woman of color to flip-flop because you are confused.

Another thing she is not and that is afraid to speak her mind. Beware of the tongue, it comes bearing sharp details.

1. You’re wanted, not needed

There’s something to be said when an independent lady spends her time with a man long-term. Whether you’re in the friend zone or on top of the washing machine, you’re important. Don’t be insecure when dealing with a strong independent woman, it’s a turn-off.

If you’re in a relationship with the independent woman, consider yourself a lucky man. She’s a leader, she’s successful and she can provide a comfortable lifestyle for herself.

Know the independent woman will make a man want to change and become a better person. He should support her efforts and become an asset to her if he wants to stay around.

Resource: 10 Things You Will Learn from Dating an Independent Woman

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